I hate getting ghosted by a guy. It’s really inconsiderate to just cut off all contact with someone because you’ve decided you’re just not that in to them. They should at least tell you why. I get it. You can’t make yourself like someone. If it’s not there, it’s not there. But at least let them know that. This is why I think all men and women should have to take an exit survey when they end a relationship. This way, the person getting dumped knows whether they did something wrong or if the person doing the dumping has some kind of issue (like maybe just being a douche bag). Maybe there should be an intro survey as well so you don’t waste your time on some loser. I actually already give a test to any potential date. Here’s a sample question from my survey (just to make sure I don’t repeat past mistakes). Feel free to borrow if you’d like!
1) Please check all that apply:
- I am already married to someone else
- I don’t have a job
- I don’t have a place to live
- I don’t have my own mode of transportation
- I am not in the United States legally
- I am gay
- I am a meth head
- I am a serial killer
- I am a total douche bag
Stephanie Walters 